Family members hurt us. Friends betray us. Fellow Christians deceive
us. But Jesus provides a path through the pain—the Lord’s Prayer.
In
The Wall Around Your Heart, Mary DeMuth shows you that
you can reach wholeness and healing in the aftermath of painful
relationships by following the road map of the Lord’s Prayer. You’ll
walk through story after story of hurt people who are led through
biblical truth into amazing, life-sustaining, joyful growth.
Life is hard. People can be mean and petty and awful. But they can
also be amazing and beautiful and sacrificial. God is good. He is
faithful. You can trust him with your relationships. “He’ll send people
to call out what is hard in your heart,” Mary shares. “And that’s a gift
to you.”
Allow God to access the wall around your heart. Dare to say, “Tear
down the bricks, Lord, whatever it takes.” Pray first. Ask for
bravery—for yourself and for others. Risk engaging despite your hurt.
Seek the shelter of Jesus.
You don’t have to resign yourself to your wounds! You can rise above the
pain. You’ll usher in a new life—an openhearted way of relating to
others that expands the kingdom of God.
In the process, you’ll draw
closer to Jesus, be healed, and become an agent of healing to others.
I have been hurt many times by people over the span of my life, starting in Kindergarten. I used to let it get in the way of my life, but God is healing me from all the past hurts. I don't struggle as much anymore, when people say things about me which aren't true or do things that betray a friendship I hold dear. I even wrote a poem about it in college.
This is the first time this poem has been published anywhere.
A Wall of Hurt
There’s
a wall
So
high
That
no one dares to climb over.
One
such person dared;
He
started to climb,
Finding
footholds here and there.
Carefully
stepping,
Reaching
for the impossible.
Almost
reaching the top,
The
end is near.
What’s
this I hear?
A
sound of tearing…
The
wall is coming down.
Will
he be safe?
Or
will he fall?
The
wall seems to come to life,
Shaking
and trembling;
Keeping
it together,
Trying
to shun the man.
The
man is holding on for dear life.
He
lunges once more
And
he’s over the top.
He
jumps off the seemingly high wall,
Walks
to the door,
Turns
the knob with such gentleness
And
turns on the light
Time
stands still.
While
the light is adjusting,
The
wall seems to sag
With
the weight of the world.
Crumbling
into dust
And
blowing away,
Leaving
a golden key
In
its wake
To
let the man have her heart.